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Avoiding or Overcoming Our Perfectionism

Are you a perfectionist? Even if you are far from perfect in any way, this personality trait might be running your life. And by running your life, it is probably ruining it as well. Perfection is not about becoming perfect. It is about looking perfect. And the distance between these two can be enormous. “To err is Human; to forgive, divine.” Alexander Pope (1688 – 1744) was on to something

November 29th, 2021|Meditation, Uncategorized|

“LIFE 3.0” by Max Tegmark – Book Review by Sunflower Counseling

Since I'm in the counseling field, I'm always curious about how the mind works. I'm always reading books about consciousness. And in these readings, it's fascinating to contemplate how all of these tech scientists in Silicon Valley are trying to actually create AI. To create a conscious brain. Is this even possible? Which brings us to today's book: In "Life 3.0", Max Tegmark takes us into the future of artificial

November 27th, 2021|Uncategorized|

The Power of Baby Steps

I’m going to tell you something right now - that you may or may not already know – you’re being too hard on yourself! This whole “tough love” thing has its place. With this said, simple support, kindness and love often does the job better and gets the job done. Which is hard! And believe me, I learned this the hard way. Over here, on my end, I’m raising two

November 26th, 2021|Uncategorized|

How to Survive the Holiday Dinners

Thanksgiving Showdown Here we go. We can feel it already. There are all these families who are getting together. And the tension is building already. Whose house are we going to? And for how long? Why do you get to call the shots and I don't? And we're being triggered left and right. Shouldn't we be better at this by now? And then, at some point, we might inevitably feel

November 24th, 2021|Uncategorized|

My Tony Robbins Story – Blog

It really started when I got the Personal Power 2 Tony Robbins audiobooks at the library. I was already kind of into him. I had a tape somewhere. (Haha, tapes.) And it kind of helped. I agreed with everything he was saying! He had these great thoughts on managing our states and that you can never fail as long as you keep trying. Sounds great. But I was still living in

November 22nd, 2021|Uncategorized|

Cleaning is a Spiritual Practice – Blog by a Missoula Therapist

“When all else fails, cleaning house is the perfect antidote to most of life’s ills.” — Sue Grafton I love to put cleaning quotes all over the house. It reminds me why it is so important to clean. I just noticed, at some point that my life is HAPPY when the place is clean. Back in the day, before I was a Missoula Counselor, I used to be a cello

November 20th, 2021|Uncategorized|
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